Glitz, Glamor and Shopping Bags. Why does this repulse me?
I love a lot of girly things, but somewhere in my biology is
a distinct dislike of shopping.
I know women who love it. My daughters love it. My daughter,
Katherine, will shop for hours and not even have an inkling of desire to buy
for herself. She is perfectly content choosing outfits for her friends,
checking out colors and textures. To me pointless shopping is like going to the
dentist for pleasure.
I just can’t imagine it.
Today a faux pas met a fantastic opportunity. I made a
mistake and the prom dress I thought I had ordered for Emma was never ordered.
I was in a dilemma. Emma wanted a special dress and complained about last
year’s dress being like “an old lady” dress and too many of the stores in our
malls suited toward her age group looked too “skanky” or some other such word
she would be more likely to say.
“I know,” I said, in a moment of delirium, “Let’s go to the
Bettie Page store!” I thought there would certainly be one in Santa Clarita,
about an hour from our house in Bakersfield if I drive fast.
Maybe all this time Shopping IS an artform and I just didn't know it?
After further research there were only two stores in
road-trip distance. Santa Barbara and Hollywood. It was about ten o’clock at
night when I said to Emma, “It looks like we’re going to Hollywood!”
I love mini-roadtrips, so this part wasn’t a problem for me
and I knew Bettie Page carried some figure flattering retro-inspired fashion. I
figured we could waltz in, quickly grab a dress and be done with it. I put an
hours worth of quarters in a parking meter close to the store and as we walked
over the stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for Burns and Allen – they rest
side by side in front of a very cool hot dog stand – I saw the looming vision
of the Bettie Page store.
We walked in and started looking and this adorable, petite
brunette young woman said, “May I help you find anything?” and Emma said no,
immediately, as I suppose I have taught her to do, but something came over me
and I said, “My daughter is looking for a dress for her prom, but it isn’t
super formal like proms used to be and….” With that our capable sales woman was
parading us in front of possible dresses and had Emma set up in a dressing room
in no time flat.
Shopping Miracle Part 1: 3 Shopping Bags from the Bettie Page store!
She brought shoes and a crinoline in for Emma to try under
her the dresses with circle skirts.
It was after I went into the store to find another size of
one dress and a different dress entirely that something strange came over me
and I was transformed into a normal shopping girly girl. Amanda said, “If you
need another size or anything, I can get it for you.” I was rehanging a dress
for Emma that didn’t fit and we went into the store together. I said something
like, “I love the clothes here. I can actually feel really pretty and feminine
and not like an unattractive big fat pig.”
We went into the store and next thing I know Amanda was
showing me an adorable bathing suit – in my size – and another dress for Emma.
I complimented a woman who not only looked smashing in a green pencil skirt
style dress, she was also a flight attendant who had her mother with her as
well.
She showed me a dress she really liked – a sailor style
dress again with a pencil skirt. She said, “I love this dress but how often
would I wear it?” I looked at her, wide eyed and offered, “Every day. You could
wear it any and every day.”
I walked on air through the store. I checked out the dresses
in the window and saw the dress Emma liked with a green crinoline.
My shopping self napped into higher gear. In that moment I
knew Emma needed a pink crinoline. “I’ll check on my credit line,” and when I
got the results I said, “We can get both the crinoline AND the shoes.”
Emma was giddy and a bit concerned that someone had taken
over the grouchy shopper Mom she was knew and (usually) loved.
We assembled everything and Amanda reminded us about the
need for a clutch to complete the ensemble.
I couldn’t believe the adorable clutches. We swooned over a
lavender, a pink and then a purple and pink possibility. We all agreed the
purple and pink was the best choice. “It is unique,” I said, “I like it the
best.”
As we were checking out I said to the clerks, “I love this
place so much, I want to move into the apartment upstairs. Is there one?”
The clerk said, “Rupaul owns it. Upstairs is his club. He
owns the whole building.”
I said, “Wait. You said Rupaul as in THE Rupaul?” I somehow think
this would make the Bettie Page who inspired the name of this fabulous store
very happy to be renting a space from Rupaul. The next thing I knew we were
walking out the door with three shopping bags in Emma’s hands.
We turned our car North to Bakersfield and managed to get
home before Samuel was
Emma, all put togerther and ready for Prom!
finished with school. The funny thing is I spent more
money than I ever have on a single outfit but I had so much fun doing it, I
want to do it again. It is closer to bathing suit season, after all, and I would
love some new Summer dresses, too.
My instagram photo we took of Emma and the three bags
outside of Rupaul’s club has become quite popular. Emma wrote on her facebook
page, “Perfect day. I've never had such a good time
shopping. My mom even liked it.”
Who knew success and sweet joy could
fit into three distinctive shopping bags?
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